| March 25, 2001 Joshua 5:9-12 + 2 Corinthians 5:17-21 + Luke 15:1-3,11-32 |
| Just a few days ago, I was in a men’s clothing store and walked past one of those three sided mirrors, and I glanced just briefly at my reflection. I was startled by how much I look like my dad. I turned back and looked more closely at my own features, my size, my head and face. I suddenly saw the man whom I last saw when he was sixty-three years old, the man I admired, cnticized, loved, and feared. A lot of energy was invested in finding my own self in the face of that person, and many questions about who I was and who I was to become were shaped by being a son of that man. As I suddenly saw this man appearing in the mirror, I was overcome with the awareness that all the differences I had been aware of during my lifetime seemed so small compared with the similarities. As I have continued to think about what I saw in that mirror, I am beginning to realize that I have been an heir to more than his name and some of his physical characteristics. I am now also one who is admired, feared, praised, and misunderstood by others, as my dad was by me. |
| We have all listened to this parable as much as we have listened to any in the Gospel. I suspect, that like me, you have listened to it time after time putting yourself in the place of one child or the other, and that’s all fine up to a point. We need to hear the story of the son who takes and abandons his father for his own pleasures, wakes up with the courage to admit he was wrong and goes home. We need to hear about the other one too; that one who does everything right, at least wants to, everything except follow his father’s example. Reflecting on our behavior from the view point the child is fine, it’s easy to identify with them for awhile. Finally however, if we’re ever going to mark any growth in our lives, we’ve got to move on. Getting stuck on the children in the story is missing the point. It’s a story about God revealed in and through Jesus Christ. In as much as the whole point of spiritual life is to become more like Jesus, we don’t get very far analyzing, identifying, and wondering about the children! |
| The final stage of the spiritual life is to let go of the fear of God, and when that happens, we are free to become like the Father Though we are both the younger and the older child, we are not to remain them, but rather we are to become like the Father No parent ever became a parent without being a child, but sooner or later, every child steps out of childhood. It is a hard and lonely step isn’t it? It is especially so in a time when parenthood is so hard to live well, but it’s still essential. |
| This parable offers us a chance to do more than just identify with the children. It offers us a chance to be more than just the one forgiven. It suggests to us that we might well become the one who forgives, the one who welcomes home. |
| Perhaps the most radical statement Jesus ever made is. “Be compassionate as your Heavenly Father is compassionate.” The God Jesus reveals to us is not to be feared, kept at a distance, or avoided. Jesus invites us to become like God. Ifwe are faithful to his wish, we are not just to be the ones who are forgiven, but the ones who forgive, show compassion, understanding and mercy This is the heart of the message of Jesus. It is what it means to become sons and daughters of God. It is what it means be heirs with Jesus of the Father’s goodness. |
| As long as we belong to this world, we will remain subject to its competitive ways and expect to be rewarded for all the good we do. But when we belong to God, who loves us without conditions, we can live as he does. The great conversion called for by Jesus is to move from belonging to the world to belonging to God. “Father, they do not belong to the world any more than I belong to the world…May they all be one.. just as, Father, you are in me and I am in you, so that they also may be in us, so that the world may believe it was you who sent me. ” |
| On Lent’s fourth Sunday, the Word of God asks us to pass by the mirror of this parable and take a good look at what we see, at how much of the eternal parent we reflect in that mirror, at how far we have come in our maturity, growth, m holiness and wisdom. True heirs inherit more than an earthly treasure. Sooner or later we shall, we must, we will begin to look more and more like the one who has given us life, or we shall never inherit the Kingdom of God prepared for us from the beginning. |
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