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April 16, 2006 At Saint Mark Church in Norman, OK

Acts 10:34, 37-43 + 1 Corinthians 5:6-8 + John 20: 1-9

We come here today by many paths, along different journeys. We come for all sorts of reasons, in all states of questioning and in all the stages of faith. We are so like that group who gathered outside Jerusalem before an empty tomb. Some are here like that beloved disciple, confident in what they have believed and lived all this time. They know that the One they follow, the One they call teacher and friend, will not let them down, whatever it looks like to the rest of the world. They come looking for any sign to encourage them to say, “Yes, this is true, faith is true. Rejoice.”

Some are here like Peter, full of suspicion and perhaps some anger. Experience has told them that the world is not a trustworthy place. There is always someone to rob their joy, betray their hope, crucify their dreams, and bury their enthusiasm. They have learned not to hope, because hope disappoints them and leaves them with less than they had before. They know how powerful are the forces of destruction in the world that will hurt them and destroy them if they are not careful. So, they are suspicious. They need proof. Questions give way to more questions while they seek answers. Yet, for them the day will come when they will shout more publicly and convincingly than most that “Jesus Christ is Lord of all.”

Some are here like Mary entombed in grief. This world, for them, is a place of sorrow and disappointment. Everything they care about dies. All their dreams collapse in ruin. They met the Lord of Life once, but then he left and they had to make their own way in the world, depend on their own decisions and face their demons by themselves. They come not expecting anything more than a chance to express their grief and share their pain. It takes the power of the risen Christ to break through their stone of sorrow and raise them up out of their tomb of despair to new life; and when they find that place of joy, their Alleluia rings out above all weeping.

Some are here just to watch, curious at the commotion, not sure what to expect or what they will find. Surly they were around the entrance of that tomb as well. People running around in the early hours of the morning must have attracted some attention. The Gospel writers are just not as interested in on lookers as these events accelerate and the excitement increases. Curiosity is never as interesting as suspicion resolved to conviction, anger transformed to peace, sorrow to joy and disappointment to surprise.

We all come here by different paths along different journeys. But there is only one reason we come: because it is Easter, because one Sunday two thousand years ago some people went to the tomb of their friend and found it empty. Yet, the empty tomb is not the issue, nor is it really the foundation of our faith. It hardly matters how the body of Jesus came to be missing because in the last analysis, what convinced people that he had risen from the dead was not the absence of a corpse, but the living presence of the one who had died. And so, it has been ever since.

Some years back, the tomb of King Tut was discovered, and people went in great numbers to look at something they could understand: the contents of the tomb. When the stone was rolled away, it was the objects in it, not the man that rose again to life. In that tomb, the man had become the most lifeless of all the objects. What a startling image of our own times this may prove to be. We may become lifeless while our stuff lives on and on and on. There is quite a contrast between King Tut and King Jesus! King Tut left a lot of stuff to fill museums and entertain the curious. King Jesus left people whose lives had changed for ever.

We are a people who often live with a “me first” mentality. Children are like that, but they quickly learn that there are some situations where you definitively would rather not be first. We call those the “you go ahead” situations. We like this arrangement when we don’t want to take the risk, look foolish, suffer pain, show fear, or experience the unknown. The good news of this Easter morning is that we have looked around at the sinfulness and shortcomings of our lives, looked at the inevitability and finality of death, and cautiously slipped up beside Jesus, poked him in the side and said: “You go ahead.” And we’re here because he did.

In fact, he is the one who said: “Me first.” and pushed himself to the front of the line; through Jerusalem, into that mess in the temple, and onto the Golgotha with his cross. He did go ahead, which is just where we need him to be. Since the beginning of creation, God has been ahead of us every step of the way. God is ahead of us in pain and suffering, torture and death. God is ahead of us at work, in relationships, in our losses and in our unknowns. The secret we have revealed today is that there is no place we can go, no dare we can take, no limb we can crawl out on, where we will not find that God has already gone ahead. Perhaps then, it is time to follow not as though we will not know the way and know the end. It is Life. It is Communion with God. It is Fellowship in Faith. It is the Kingdom of God, because Christ has died, Christ is risen, and Christ will Come Again.

October 30, 2005

Malachi 1:14-2:1, 8-10 + 1 Thessalonians 2: 7-9, 13 + Matthew 23: 1-12

It is easy to get caught up in this harsh critique of the Pharisees.

In fact, it is so harsh that the compliment they receive is hardly noticeable.

Their teaching is good.

It is their behavior that provokes the condemnation,

and the words of caution for disciples.

In fact the focus here in Matthew is not the Pharisees at all.

This is really an instruction for disciples.

The critique of the Pharisees is merely an introduction.

The lesson Jesus is giving disciples is that

they are not to be heartless taskmasters

demanding more than they are willing to give;

show-off do gooders making a big deal out of ordinary kindness;

or expecting exceptional service or recognition in public places.

This behavior is inconsistent with the internal spirit of humble disciples.

The disciple of Jesus will have an integrated life.

The outside and the inside will be in agreement.

This is the issue Jesus has again and again with Pharisees.

What you see is never what you get with them.

They have not internalized their teaching,

and what they do is not motivated by what they profess

nearly as much as it is motivated by a desire to “look good”

and so, of course, maintain their position,

the respect they enjoy,

and all the privileges that go with it.

Disciples of Jesus will live with integrity in the most strict sense of the word.

What they do will be an honest expression of what they believe

or they will not do it.

What they say will be a verbal expression of what they do.

Disciples of Jesus will be obedient only to God as they are obedient to their Fathers.

Disciples of Jesus will look to Jesus as their teacher for what matters, no one else.

It trivializes this lesson to think it is simply about titles.

This is about Leadership and Authority!

Consequently, we lead by example not by command.

Our leadership, when guided by compassion, will be recognized as genuine

because it inspires, brings life, and is enlightened by a vision of the Kingdom of God,

that is found in serving rather than being served.

The image Jesus has put before us

is that of a master who puts on an apron and serves the household staff.

This vision of leadership pertains to every one of us.

It is not a plan for a critique on the hierarchy.

It pertains to every disciple who leads and serves others

as parent, spouse, friend, neighbor, model, mentor, or confidant.

Husbands and Wives are being instructed

about how to treat each other and serve another before one’s self..

Parents are being instructed

about how to lead and teach children with true authority.

Young People who already have positions of leadership

and those who are learning the skills and attitudes of leadership

must see and learn from Jesus the importance of including everyone,

the profound importance of appreciating and affirming not condemning,

and of strengthening another not destroying.

This weekend and tomorrow a lot of people

will be putting on masks and costumes.

This Gospel raises questions

about people who wear masks all the time.

Hiding or disguising the real face of things inside.

It raises questions to people who look in the mirror

and never see what others see.

The Word of God this weekend

demands with great insistence

that mask, mirrors, and the real face of people all three unite.

December 26, 2004
Sirach 3:2-6,12-14 + Colossians 3:12-17 +Matthew2:13-15,19-23  
A quick and easy reading of the Go$pel today in the context of this Feast might at first suggest that “family” is a matter of a mother, a father, and a son. Yet everyone of us knows real families that do not fit that model.In everyone of our families there is some exception to this image. My own family tells me that.My mother lived in an orphanage.My father left his fatherless home before he was 18.We live in an age when single-:parent families, blended families, and multi-generational families are just as common,as the traditional model we see in the Gospels. Many of us know households that have parents who have never married yet are raising children together.

I have begun to suspect from the Gospels·that what-makes “family” is a matter of what happens, not who is there.

There are certainly homes in which a mother and father live under the same roof as their children,
but it would be a stretch to describe the relationship they share as ”family ” Parents who work around the clock,
who bring their lap tops and cen phones
to the soccer games and swim meets of their children have no connection with what I believe this Gospel suggests is a family
After care programs, quick on-the-go meals, frenzied schedules
that leave no time for conversations between mothers and daughters, fathers and sons, husbands and wives are not providing what this Gospel suggests family life is all about.

The Gospels, especially Matthew and Luke suggest
that a family is a relationship that listens to and responds to the message of God. For Joseph and Mary, that was a matter of dreams.
Dreams in that age were commonly thought to be messages from God. For us, the message of God is found in the Gospel, and so “family” can well mean a relatiqnship formed around the Word of God.
Luke suggests that family is created by relationships
where growth in wisdom, knowledge, and favor before God take place.
Remember how he describes what went on in Nazareth after Jesus was found in the temple.

This is the issue for us today on this feast.
Family is not simply a matter of who is there or who is not.
It is a matter of relationships that are responsive to the Will of God
and relationships where wisdom, knowledge and grace are nurtured and grow. This is what made that family in Nazareth Holy, and it is what can make any family Holy.

The danger Joseph fled with his wife and the child was not just Herod. It was all that Herod stood for and Herod’s refusal of the “dream”, or the message and will of God.
The danger we must flee is isolation, individualism,
a consumer culture where time is a commodity scarce for the play and interaction that nurtures growth in wisdom, knowledge and favor before God.

Holy is the place where these things happen.
Holy is the people whose love, respect, honor, and commitment
.provide the climate for these things.
Holy is the family where dreams are remembered; and wisdom, knowledge, and grace abound.

It does not matter in the end, who is there. What does matter is what happens.  

October 17, 2004

Exodus 17:8-13 + 2 Timothy 3:14-4:2 + Luke 18: 1-8

It is about prayer, but in the mind of Luke, it is also about justice.The two are not separated, and in the context of our instructions about the qualities of a disciple during this Journey to Jerusalem,we ought to perk up and pay attention.The widow of this parable gives us more than a lesson on persistence.She teaches not just how to pray, but also what to pray.Nameless as she is in the context of this Gospel,she becomes symbolic, not just of the poor, but symbolic of the church itself. Disciples of Jesus (that’s the church) learn from the Masterthat perseverance in prayer is important,and that injustice is not to remain where disciples live.

This instruction by Jesus to those who would be His disciples insists that we do not just persevere in prayer, but also that we cry out for justice.Those who believe in Jesus will do so.Those who would follow Jesus to Jerusalem will not leave things the way they are.If we are to be disciples of Jesus,then we cannot be like children playing at home or at school.We cannot know what is right and fail to speak up when something is wrong.We cannot blame a “system” because we are the system.We cannot say: “That’s just the way things are.”because it is our silence that keeps things that way.

God calls believers to speak up and put themselves on the line.It was not easy for that widow to stand again and again before that judge,but she would not be silent while there was injustice.Besides, who knows about him?I wonder sometimes if his change of heart was not more than simply being worn out.Perhaps, he was tired of being part of a system of injustice,and in his heart he thought, “It’s not fair. I am going to do something about it.”

I wonder as well if we might not benefit from shaking up the usual way of hearing this parable.Perhaps we should switch sides and listen to again with us as the judge and God as the woman.It would be a little like the parable of the unjust steward who is clever enough to manipulate his master’s debts to give himself a comfortable retirement.In switching roles here, God would be the one who implores,who will not give up, who continues to persist in calling us to justice.With the hope that even if we are not moved by the right motives,the coming of God’s Reign, we might respond simply out of awarenessthat it will give us some relief!However we hear this parable,the joining of persistent prayer and the cry for justice are not to be separated.

It is not the nature of our God to turn away from injustice whether it be personal/individual acts or systemic injustice in cultures, economies, and politics.We pray again and again, day in and day out the words:”Thy Kingdom Come, Thy Will  Be Done…..”The greatest obstacle to the coming of God’s Reign among us is Injustice.The Church has spoken again and again of this.The Holy Father has said it aloud in the United Nations.True and Lasting Peace comes only when there is Justice.Then all people know the benevolent God who reveals His love for us.Then all people will have a just and fair share of God’s gifts and the resources of this earth.This is the image of the Reign of God Luke proposes to us.To disciples on the Way to the New Jerusalem, God comes along nagging, pestering, urging, pleading, and crying out to us for Justice.It seems to me that the sooner we make Justice a priority in our lives and in our prayer, the sooner our prayers shall be answered, and the Kingdom will Come.

September 12, 2004

Exodus 32:7-14 + 1 Timothy 1:12-17 + Luke 15:1-32

Another lesson in the ways of discipleship as Jesus walks to Jerusalemcomes in a story all too familiar.It provides another of the qualities of discipleship,but it is easily missed by a people who are more interestedin the one who runs away than in the those who stay home.The is not about the children.It is about the parent.Luke would have us understand thisby quickly adding the two parables that follow the long one.Left to ourselves we might like to think that this long story is about us;finding a welcome,receiving unconditional forgiveness,coming to our senses,knowing where our true home is to be found.But, it is not about any of that.At least not until we have explored entirely the people who stay home.In that sense, it is about us,about you and me who have not run away, who are not big sinners,who have not yet squandered our inheritanceeven though we may take risks with it now and then.

For people who want to be disciples of Jesus, the virtue, or quality of discipleship is found in the Father of this first storymade all the more obvious by the behavior and attitude of the older son.Yet this parable always tempts us to comfort ourselvesrather than challenge ourselves.We want it to be about forgiveness receivedrather than hear it as a lesson in forgiven;but there is no way around the placement of this story on the road to Jerusalem.It is about disciples and how they are to behave, what they ought to feel,and how they should treat one another.

The disciple of Jesus Christ waits for and anxiously anticipates the opportunity to forgive. There is no hint of blame nor thought of punishment.There is only a burning desire to restore what is lost,to heal what is broken,and to RUN, not walk toward anyone who has turned toward us.That father never gave up his hope nor his desire to have his children together.That father never said those deadly words:”He’ll never change.” or, “That’s just the way he is.”

Those words betray an attitude of judgement that freezes out the other,

and they justify giving up hope, when there is no reason to do so.

The heart hardened by such judgements is not the heart of a disciple of Jesus.

Stubbornness, anger, self-righteousness, and arrogance in the face of human weakness are not qualities of disciples of Jesus making their way to Jerusalem.

Those disciples will always be on the lookout, and always be vigilant for every opportunity to extend the mercy of God and the embrace of God

not just to the deserving, but also to those who some would think will never change, never be worthy, nor ever find their way home.

As disciples of Jesus we must be reconcilers as much as reconciled.

All three parables today focus on celebration

and that celebration is why we are here.

Yet it rarely looks and feels much like such a celebration

because we are still too good at pointing the finger of blame

and fail to open our arms in embrace.

This noble virtue of mercy is out of our reach if it is only found in God.

The call to discipleship is a call to mercy, forgiveness, peace;

but it is not a call to accept them nearly as much as it is a vocation to give them.

When that happens on this earth, the party will have begun.

January 6, 2003

Isaiah 60:1-6 + Ephesians 3:2-3,5-6 + Matthew 2:1-12

The question put before us by Matthew today is whether our relationship to Jesus is still a quest that springs from the deepest longings of our hearts. The quest to find Jesus makes restless every human heart, and who knows how or where people find Jesus? Some spend their whole lives looking without success, perhaps because they are blinded by their expectations.

This rich and ancient story we tell on the Twelfth Day of Christmas speaks of our quest and our expectations. It speaks of our quest because so much is revealed about us by our longings and the things we seek. It speaks of our expectations because where we look and what we look for affects what we find.

One star in a black night sky captured their attention because they were looking. Something different for them was a cause of wonder that led them to Christ. Not put off because the one they sought was not found in the great city of Jerusalem or its palaces, they found Him in insignificant Bethlehem in an ordinary house with his very ordinary mother.

This is a profound tale with a treasure of wisdom. Not everyone who looked at the sky that night saw what those astrologers from the East saw. Something more is required to recognize what is different and be willing to wonder and follow it. Too many of us look for what is the same; for what is not different, for what is predictable and expected. When something out of the ordinary occurs

or someone out of the ordinary moves through our lives, we shy away, are threatened, and avoid the challenge to our controlled and predictable existence. Those who avoid what is unexpected or different may very well never find Christ Jesus.

Blinded by expectations, the people of this story may well have missed the presence of Christ. Their willingness to go to Bethlehem, their wisdom to listen to the Scriptures, and their openness to any possibility brought them to Christ.

I suspect that when they returned home, their friends and family were a little amazed and a little amused. “What did you see?” they were probably asked. When their report was so simple, ordinary and humble, they must have been thought of as fools. But this is the beginning of the Good News some still consider foolish. The “gift” of this story may not be Gold, Frankincense, or Myrh. The “gift” they possess may be the wisdom to be unthreatened by what is different and unexpected with the willingness to look deeper into darkness. The “gift” they possess may be the ability to get beyond expectations and be surprised to discover the presence of God in people and places that seem to have nothing to offer.

When that happens, the ones who seem to have the most to offer, the ones bearing gifts end up being the ones who receive the real Gift of God. Our quest for Christ Jesus will reveal our expectations and challenge their limits. It will reveal the deepest longings of our hearts. If we long for palaces and their riches, for that security and the confidence that we know the way, we shall not have learned much from these companions of ours whose story we tell today.

On the Twelfth Day of Christmas our wise companions lead us into the mystery of the Incarnation; into the mystery of a God who will be revealed in the simple and the ordinary, the different and the unexpected. We may seem a bit foolish to believe this, but only in the eyes of those who can never wonder in the dark.

(FIRST COMMUNION MASS HOMILY)
April 28, 2002
Acts 6:1-7 + 1 Peter 2:4-9 + John 14: 1 12  
How many of you have heard of Moses? He was a great leader and prophet.In fact, a leader and a prophet is really the same person.He was born at a time when the People of Israel were slaves in Egypt, and God called him to lead them out of Egypt to a new land where they would be free and faithful to God.To get to that new land, they had to go a long way through the desert, and it took so long that they couldn’t take enough food to last the journey, so every morning, God would give them something to eat to keep them going on the journey Some people have called that food. “Way Bread.”-    like bread to eat on the way.
Now later on the People of Israel got themselves practically back in slavery again when the Romans came to their country,and that’s about the time Jesus was born. So, a lot of them began to think of Jesus as though they had a new Moses who was going to lead them to a new land again-    the land of heaven.  
That’s a good way to think about Jesus this week as you came here with your family from hometo join your family of faith.It’s a good way to think about Jesus because we’re all on our waywith Jesus as leader and prophet. It’s a long journey It takes a whole lifetime to get to the freedom that Jesus has promised us with His Father,and it takes a lot of food to keep up your strength.It’s just like the first time when Moses led the people in the desert. So, God feeds us, just life before.God gives us food for the journey-    “Way Bread” comes again,but this time it’s Holy Communion – Food for the Journey, the Body of Christ.  
This is what Jesus gave to his disciples to keep them going, to keep them faithful, to keep them together on the journey· His Body and Blood in Holy Communion.  
(Turning toward and Addressing the parents) Now my dear friends,you’ve done well since the first time you brought these children before us and introduced them into the family of faith.You have taught them to pray, to listen to God’s Word,and to forgive.You have taught them rituals or forgiveness as we celebrate in this family of faith.And now you bring them to the Lord’s Table to share with them the Bread of Life.  
On that day when you first brought them before us, you gave evidence of your faith in the creed.I know ask your children to give this first witness to their faith on their own before you and this entire assembly. It is the faith into which they have been baptized,and the faith that will lead them safely home to the Father’s House.  
(Turning back to the children, renew the Baptismal Promises)  
Now, boys and girls, Jesus has gone before us to get things ready.Before he left, he told his disciples that He was the Way, the Truth and the Life.During the journey, Jesus expects us to be the Way for others. not a dead end and not a detour.You have to be the Way that leads others to GodHe expects us to the Truth for others: not a lie, or a fake, but the real thing that people can trust and believe.He expects us to be Life: to preserve life, and never take it or treat it badlyThis is what it means for us to be church and to life in the family of faith. to be the Way, to be the Truth, and to be the Life.If you’re ready to do that, then you should take Holy Communion today, and begin to pray that Jesus will save a place for you in His Father’s House.  
May 13, 2001
Acts 14:21-27 + Revelation 21.1-5 + John 13:31-35  
John speaks of glocy in the little section of today’s gospel lifted from the Farewell discourse, and he leaves us to make sense of what follows. It’s not difficult to figure out how glocy works or where it comes from, the problem is simply that we see so little of it when the Gospel puts it before us so clearly  
Sacrifice is the issue. The greatest glocy in life comes from sacrifice. You can’t have one without the other We see this often enough to know that it’s true, and we don’t see it often enough to know that we’ve got a challenge here ifwe ever hope for glocy In war time, it’s the people who don’t come home, the wounded or the dead who get the big glocy In terms of public service, it’s those who make some real, personal sacrifice who get the glocy The doctor or lawyer who makes a fortune never has glocy, but those who give their lives for healing and the easing of human pain are the ones we remember.The teachers who did more than their contract required, who shared in parenting, loving, and nurturing are the ones we remember, at least it so for me.  
The most simple lesson of histocy is that those who have made the big sacrifices are the ones who remembered and get the glocy. This world quickly forgets the successful in life, but never the sacrificial. This is what we learn from John 13, a lesson on glocy.  
What Jesus proposes to those who would follow him is that they might have a share in this glocy that is there between God and Jesus. What Jesus proposes to those who would follow him is that they might come to this glory by taking a share in his sacrifice. Now I find it fascinating that John doesn’t want to tell us about glory while Judas is there. Did you notice that first line: “When Judas had left them, Jesus said…” It’s as though, Judas, who makes no sacrifice, gets no glocy. The only interest Judas had was thirty pieces of silver, money He wasn’t going to be around for the sacrifice. So, no glocy for him.  
It was the obedience of Jesus that brought glory to the Father There is only one way in which anyone ever shows that they love, admire, and trust a leader, and that is by obedience. The only way achild honors its parent, in other words, gives that parent glory, is by  obedience. Jesus gave the ultimate honor and gloiy to God because He gave to God the supreme obedience, the obedience which obeyed even to the cross.  
Those of us here who hold to the hope of a share in the gloiy of Christ Jesus must get it right – must understand that we’re not going to be swept into that gloiy in the shadows of someone else’s sacrifice. The suffering of Jesus Christ did not remove one bit of suffering in this life. It only afflrmed that suffering will not overcome those who are obedient to God.  
We get the commandment today, and have the choice to obey or not. Those who choose love will be choosing sacrifice, and the greater the love, the greater the sacrifice; the greater the sacrifice, the greater the gloiy So it is in this world where God chooses to reveal himself through a suffering servant as a God who glorifies with life those who choose obedience. What more perfect day could we have in this countiy to reflect upon this truth and profound mystery of our faith than on Mother’s Day as we honor and give gloiy to our mothers living and to the memory of our mothers who have died. You think about yours. I think about mine. From her and the man who was her partner in life and in love, I learned to understand this Gospel and the truth that there is no gloiy without sacrifice, and that when understood in that way, sacrifice was no matter for complaint or bitterness, but rather and opportunity to love more deeply and more profoundly  Obedient to that example, we in turn seek the same gloiy that has come to Jesus by our service, sacrifice, and love of one another That’s what Jesus came to say sitting at that table after Judas had left.
April 1, 2001
Isaiah 43:16-21 + Philippians 3:8-14 + John 8:1-11  
She was between 12 and 14 years old. The law said if you were married and committed adultery you were to be strangled. If you were betrothed, you were to be stoned. So we know even more about her Before that day, she had no rights. According to their law, adultery consisted of intercourse with a woman betrothed or married to another man.On the other hand, men could freely have intercourse with any woman except the wife of another man. Moreover, a husband could accuse his wife of adultery, but a wife could accuse a husband of nothing.Adultery was a crime against the rights of a man, not against those of the woman who was subject to the husband.  
In this story, there is no escaping the fact that the man has not been caught, or at least not brought to trial. He’s not there, which reveals the intent of those who bring the girl before Jesus. The missing man is guilty too. He has committed adultery with a betrothed woman. If this were a serious trial, he would be there too.Jesus is trapped. Ifhe says. “Fulfill the law” He’s in trouble with the Romans who do not allow the Jews to put anyone to death. Ifhe says: “Let her go.” he’s violating the Mosaic law, but this was not a matter of dealing with the consequences of the law It was an effort to trap Jesus, and so, it’s not about the woman nor is it about Jesus. It’s about them. It’s as though they are attempting to put Jesus on trial, but the truth is, they are the ones on trial here.They are the ones about whom judgement is to be made. In the end however, this is a story about rights.  
It has always struck me that what is not said in this story is more important than what is said. She comes empty handed. They stand there with fists full of stones. Righteous and all very proper, they contrast themselves to one filled with shame. We are left to chose where we shall stand. with the righteous, or with the shameful. In our hearts, we know where we belong, and the season has been about that very recognition.All of us are caught in the act, and the act is not adultery It is a refusal of mercy which in behavior becomes judgmental righteousness.  
The question asked by Jesus reaches to each ofus who would hide behind the law to condemn another while confirming ourselves in the blindness of our hearts.The one who had no rights, gets them in the new creation begun with Jesus, and her right is the right to mercy. Like the parable of last week’s assembly, it’s easy for us to identify with the sinners seeking forgiveness while the story is really an invitation to identify with  the Father who gives it. We are a people always claiming and insisting on our rights, probably never more than in this age.The story today is about rights, specifically, a right those so quick to condemn are always quick to deny. The good news today is that when judgemental righteousness are finally driven away, we can stand empty handed before one another in trust and sincerity, and all that remains is misery and mercy, face to face.  
March 25, 2001
Joshua 5:9-12 + 2 Corinthians 5:17-21 + Luke 15:1-3,11-32  
Just a few days ago, I was in a men’s clothing store and walked past one of those three sided mirrors, and I glanced just briefly at my reflection. I was startled by how much I look like my dad. I turned back and looked more closely at my own features, my size, my head and face. I suddenly saw the man whom I last saw when he was sixty-three years old, the man I admired, cnticized, loved, and feared. A lot of energy was invested in finding my own self in the face of that person, and many questions about who I was and who I was to become were shaped by being a son of that man. As I suddenly saw this man appearing in the mirror, I was overcome with the awareness that all the differences I had been aware of during my lifetime seemed so small compared with the similarities. As I have continued to think about what I saw in that mirror, I am beginning to realize that I have been an heir to more than his name and some of his physical characteristics. I am now also one who is admired, feared, praised, and misunderstood by others, as my dad was by me.  
We have all listened to this parable as much as we have listened to any in the Gospel. I suspect, that like me, you have listened to it time after time putting yourself in the place of one child or the other, and that’s all fine up to a point. We need to hear the story of the son who takes and abandons his father for his own pleasures, wakes up with the courage to admit he was wrong and goes home. We need to hear about the other one too; that one who does everything right, at least wants to, everything except follow his father’s example. Reflecting on our behavior from the view point the child is fine, it’s easy to identify with them for awhile. Finally however, if we’re ever going to mark any growth in our lives, we’ve got to move on. Getting stuck on the children in the story is missing the point. It’s a story about God revealed in and through Jesus Christ. In as much as the whole point of spiritual life is to become more like Jesus, we don’t get very far analyzing, identifying, and wondering about the children!  
The final stage of the spiritual life is to let go of the fear of God, and when that happens, we are free to become like the Father Though we are both the younger and the older child, we are not to remain them, but rather we are to become like the Father No parent ever became a parent without being a child, but sooner or later, every child steps out of childhood. It is a hard and lonely step isn’t it? It is especially so in a time when parenthood is so hard to live well, but it’s still essential.  
This parable offers us a chance to do more than just identify with the children. It offers us a chance to be more than just the one forgiven. It suggests to us that we might well become the one who forgives, the one who welcomes home.  
Perhaps the most radical statement Jesus ever made is. “Be compassionate as your Heavenly Father is compassionate.” The God Jesus reveals to us is not to be feared, kept at a distance, or avoided. Jesus invites us to become like God. Ifwe are faithful to his wish, we are not just to be the ones who are forgiven, but the ones who forgive, show compassion, understanding and mercy This is the heart of the message of Jesus. It is what it means to become sons and daughters of God. It is what it means be heirs with Jesus of the Father’s goodness.  
As long as we belong to this world, we will remain subject to its competitive ways and expect to be rewarded for all the good we do. But when we belong to God, who loves us without conditions, we can live as he does. The great conversion called for by Jesus is to move from belonging to the world to belonging to God. “Father, they do not belong to the world any more than I belong to the world…May they all be one.. just as, Father, you are in me and I am in you, so that they also may be in us, so that the world may believe it was you who sent me. ”  
On Lent’s fourth Sunday, the Word of God asks us to pass by the mirror of this parable and take a good look at what we see, at how much of the eternal parent we reflect in that mirror, at how far we have come in our maturity, growth, m holiness and wisdom. True heirs inherit more than an earthly treasure. Sooner or later we shall, we must, we will begin to look more and more like the one who has given us life, or we shall never inherit the Kingdom of God prepared for us from the beginning.  
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